Wednesday, April 10, 2013

"The Giver" - Lois Lowry


One of my favorite books of all time is a children’s novel entitled, “The Giver” by Lois Lowry.

 The first time I read this book was in fifth grade and I remember loving it even though I did not fully understand the underlying meaning.  At age 9, I just enjoyed the storyline.  Since then I have read the book at least 5 times since and every time I learn something new or have a different perspective on the book.  I love the concept that the book addresses about how controlling should society be?  In the book, the government controls everything and the community members are mindless followers.  They have no free agency and cannot even see color or feel pain.  Everyone is guaranteed safety and the necessities but in consequence no one truly understands life.  Since they have never felt utter sadness they have never felt true happiness because they have nothing to compare it to.  “The Giver” helped me understand the LDS gospel principle of opposition in all things as well as free agency.  After I read this book, I was so grateful for all the experiences good and bad that I had gone through.  Overall, this book is an amazing representation of the importance of free agency in religion, society and life. 

Conference Weekend


Conference was amazing this last weekend.  One of my favorite talks was by Elder L. Whitney Clayton entitled, "Marriage: Watch and Learn."  He discussed the importance of marriage in our lives and it is our choice to have a happy or distressed marriage.  Elder Clayton also gave the members of the church guidelines about how to attain an eternal marriage.  If you missed this talk in the Sunday morning session look it up on lds.org.  It is worth listening to!  One of my favorite quotes from this L. Whitney Clayton was:

“Marriage is a gift from God to us, the quality of our marriages is a gift from us to Him!”

What a powerful quote.  The quality of our marriage is our personalized gift to God.  God has done so much for each of us.  Everything we have is because of our loving Heavenly Father.  It is our responsibility to create a marriage that He would be proud of.      






Wednesday, April 3, 2013

Start the Change - Letter to the Editor or Seventeen Magazine


RE:  Body Image in the Media

Bernadette,

I am writing you in regards to the messages you are sending teenage girls within the media.  Seventeen Magazine targets young adolescent girls from 12-20 years of age.  This is a pivotal time for girls in regards to body image, self-esteem and personal aspirations.  You have so much power to either have a positive or detrimental effect on girls. 

I remember as a teenager in high school reading your magazines.  I would stare at the models used and the famous stars depicted on the cover and wonder why I did not look like them.  I was a healthy 16 year old but still would never reach body perfection as shown in your magazines.  All throughout high school I suffered from a poor body image.  I am not saying that your magazine is what caused my insecurities about my body type but I do believe that the content in your magazines did influence it. 

I would like to suggest including women of different body types that all women could relate to in your magazine.  Show happy, healthy and curvy women in your magazines. The majority of girls reading your magazine do not fit the body type that you are displaying.  The average size of the models you use are 0-2 while in reality the average size of women in the United States is size 14.  This is huge difference in what the media is portraying of what women are suppose to look like in comparison to what real women look like. 

Another suggestion that I have for Seventeen Magazine is to include less superficial articles.  I would always read through the magazine and learn about the new trends, make-up tips and dating advice.  In my experience, the majority of the content is centered on outer beauty.  I strongly believe that the magazine should focus more on the inner beauty of each individual girl.  Include more articles about being a better friend, student and daughter not about being a better best kisser.  We need women in today’s society to focus their self-confidence on their character and not about the clothes, make-up or number of boyfriends they have.   

Seventeen has the resources and power to make a difference in the world of media.  Change how the world views beauty.  Beauty is an everyday woman who is strong, happy and independent.  We need to focus on the inner strength, kindness and sensitivity that women are innately given.  There are young girls everywhere that need to know that how they look is great and accepted in society.  Start the change!          


Sincerely,



Rachel Callister